Hot is only hot when everyone says yes.
01 Enthusiastic, every time
A card is an idea, not an order. Skip any card, for any reason, without saying why.
02 The safe word ends everything
Tap “Safe word” on any tablet and the game pauses. Everyone stops right away - no arguing, no sulking.
03 “No” is private
Desire Match only shows what you both said yes or maybe to. Your partner never sees what you said no to.
04 Circles need a yes from both sides
Couples connect only when both say yes. Anyone can say no, remove or block at any time, and Duo Nights need both couples to confirm.
05 Own partner by default
Duo Night cards are played with your own partner unless all four adults clearly agree to something else, sober and right then.
06 Adults only, always
Everyone with an account is 18+. Anything with people under 18, forcing someone, or sex without a clear yes is banned and reported.
07 Aftercare matters
Check in afterwards. Water, warmth and kind words. Talk about what you loved and what you’d change.